The bigger picture – Day 6

Every year, on 9 August, we celebrate Women’s Day. I have often wondered if such a day is necessary. Isn’t every day supposed to be Women’s Day?

If I think of all the women who have crossed my path over the years, I am astonished about how many capable women there really are. The kind of women that King Lemuel’s mother talked about, the type of women she wished to see beside her son.

We are all well aware of that classic photograph that is often taken of a husband and his wife. This photo is often taken at weddings or when someone requests a formal photo. The husband sits on the chair and the wife stands behind him with her hands lovingly resting on his shoulders, so dignified and formal.

We could easily say it is old fashioned and classic, however, times have changed. These days, we are partners. No one is more important than the other is – this is true. Yet, the woman plays an important role.

As wife to her husband, she is the one who supports him, even if he is in a lesser position than her at work. She is the mother of her children and she will remain that forever, no matter her circumstances. She cares and creates a safe home for her family, she consoles when consolation is needed. She will encourage when encouragement is needed. She does all of this no matter what her position is at work or at home. She is a woman with special gifts and talents that men do not have.

Jannie du Toit and Christa Steyn composed this piece from Proverbs for the CD Deel die Woord. Every time I read this piece and listen to the music, I greatly admire how the music touches on the role of the capable woman.

Today, I want to say to all the capable women, “You are valuable in the kingdom of God here on earth. Thank you for what you do for and mean to your husbands, children and friends.”