Ephesians 5

₁Since you are God's dear children, you must try to be like him. ₂Your life must be controlled by love, just as Christ loved us and gave his life for us as a sweet-smelling offering and sacrifice that pleases God.

₃Since you are God's people, it is not right that any matters of sexual immorality or indecency or greed should even be mentioned among you. ₄Nor is it fitting for you to use language which is obscene, profane, or vulgar. Rather you should give thanks to God. ₅You may be sure that no one who is immoral, indecent, or greedy (for greed is a form of idolatry) will ever receive a share in the Kingdom of Christ and of God.

₆Do not let anyone deceive you with foolish words; it is because of these very things that God's anger will come upon those who do not obey him. ₇So have nothing at all to do with such people. ₈You yourselves used to be in the darkness, but since you have become the Lord's people, you are in the light. So you must live like people who belong to the light, ₉for it is the light that brings a rich harvest of every kind of goodness, righteousness, and truth. ₁₀Try to learn what pleases the Lord. ₁₁Have nothing to do with the worthless things that people do, things that belong to the darkness. Instead, bring them out to the light. ₁₂(It is really too shameful even to talk about the things they do in secret.) ₁₃And when all things are brought out to the light, then their true nature is clearly revealed; ₁₄for anything that is clearly revealed becomes light. That is why it is said:

₁₅So be careful how you live. Don't live like ignorant people, but like wise people. ₁₆Make good use of every opportunity you have, because these are evil days. ₁₇Don't be fools, then, but try to find out what the Lord wants you to do.

₁₈Do not get drunk with wine, which will only ruin you; instead, be filled with the Spirit. ₁₉Speak to one another with the words of psalms, hymns, and sacred songs; sing hymns and psalms to the Lord with praise in your hearts. ₂₀In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, always give thanks for everything to God the Father.

₂₁Submit yourselves to one another because of your reverence for Christ.

₂₂Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. ₂₃For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Saviour of the church, his body. ₂₄And so wives must submit completely to their husbands just as the church submits itself to Christ.

₂₅Husbands, love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it. ₂₆He did this to dedicate the church to God by his word, after making it clean by washing it in water, ₂₇in order to present the church to himself in all its beauty — pure and faultless, without spot or wrinkle or any other imperfection. ₂₈Men ought to love their wives just as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself. ₂₉(People never hate their own bodies. Instead, they feed them and take care of them, just as Christ does the church; ₃₀for we are members of his body.) ₃₁As the scripture says, “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife, and the two will become one.” ₃₂There is a deep secret truth revealed in this scripture, which I understand as applying to Christ and the church. ₃₃But it also applies to you: every husband must love his wife as himself, and every wife must respect her husband.